The Do’s and Don’ts of Brushes and Combs

Knowing what tools to use and when depends entirely on you and your hair. For those on their natural hair journey they may find different tools work differently depend on whether there hair is dry/wet or blown/stretched/straightened. No two heads are the same so it’s great to experiment with different types of combs and brushes so you can find out what works best for you. Here are a few basic do’s and don’ts of brushes and combs that I use.

Wide toothed comb


  • Use a wide toothed combs to detangle hair
  • Use on wet/conditioned hair for easier slip
  • Use on blown/stretched/straightened out hair


  • Use on dry untangled hair
  • Comb from root to tip. Comb from tip to root instead.

Fine Toothed Comb


  • Use to finish styles


  • Try to comb through dry curly hair
  • Comb though wet hair

Denman Brush


  • Use on detangled hair to loosen any remaining tangles
  • Use on blown out/stretched/straightened hair to style


  • Use on dry un-stretched hair
  • Brush through tangled wet hair. It’s very easy to break the hair strand when wet.

Boar Bristle Brush:


  • Use to tidy edges
  • Use to tame fly aways


  • Use to brush straight through dry or wet hair

My Week Using a Rinse-out Conditioner as a Leave-in

So I’ve spent a while looking for a good leave-in that doesn’t leave a film but also moisturizes my hair. I’ve tried a variety of products but none have been completely perfect. Well recently while washing my hair I thought ‘Why can’t I just leave the conditioner in?’. I researched using a rinse-out as a leave-in and found that a number of people were already doing this so I thought I’d give it a go.

Day 1:

I applied a conditioner (Hello Hydration) to my dry hair but found it difficult to distribute. I then decided to dampen my hair to aid absorption.

Day 2:

My hair felt dry and I realized I didn’t use any oil so none of the moisture was sealed in. I repeated the steps from the day before but sealed with castor oil.

Day 3:

I decided to use my conditioner to make a mixture that would effectively work as a leave-in.


  • 3tsb conditioner
  • 2tsb water
  • 1tsb castor oil

I combined this and applied it to my hair and sealed with heated castor oil. My hair felt soft and moisturized.

Day 4:

My hair felt moisturised and I didn’t apply anything.

Day 5:

Same as day 4.

Day 6:

I reapplied my leave in to lightly dampened hair but also added a few drops of tea tree oil and a teaspoon of mint oil.

Day 7:

I washed my hair and repeated day 3.


My hair feels great! I don’t have to worry about dry hair and making a leave is really cheap and I will contiue to do this after washing my hair. It’s only been a week so I’m still in a trial period I suppose but if there are any updates I’ll let you know.

How to Make Your Own Leave-in Conditioner

If your hair is often dry you’ve probably looked for different leave-ins and moisturizers to help keep your hair hydrated. Finding the perfect leave-in can be expensive when you take into account all the different products you have to try before you get to the right one. Also, leave in conditioners are often more expensive than regular conditioners and if you’re anything like me you use a lot so they don’t last very long.

Well what if I told you that you can make your own leave-in conditioner? You’ll never have to buy a leave in again! There are a variety of ways to me a one but but below is a simple recipe for making your own leave-in conditioner:

What you’ll need:

  • 3tsb moisturising conditioner (I use Hello Hydration)
  • 2tsb water
  • 1tsb carrier oil (I use castor oil)

Depending on the length and thickness of your hair the quantities above may need to be multiplied. Combine this in a small storage tub and apply to slightly dampened hair. This should keep as long as the shelf date of the conditioner used but you may need add a small amount of water to it if it starts to separate.

Can You Use a Rinse-out Conditioner as a Leave-in?

I was thinking about this the other day when I was washing my hair. I always assumed that you should wash out your conditioner since that’s what it says on the bottle but then I wondered what would be the actual effects of leaving the conditioner in. Some say that it can cause itchiness or a dry scalp but to counteract this people say to apply it 1-2 inches away from your scalp. My hair can get pretty dry and this could be interesting to try. I may never have to use an ordinary leave-in again, who knows!

I’m thinking of trying this as a experiment during my next wash (with Hello Hydration). I’ll report back with the results!

Has anyone else used a rinse-out as a leave-in? How was it?

Review: Vatika Enriched Coconut Hair Oil


I’ve been using Vatika Hair oil for a few months now after I picked it up on one of my trips to the supermarket. Before I bought it I hadn’t read any reviews and just thought I’d go for it and try something new. The Dabur Vatika hair range fall within Ayuverdic healthcare which is a type of Indian medicine.

The main thing that drew me to it was that it was meant to help combat dry hair. When I first bought this my hair was tragically dry. I don’t know what I was doing or not doing to make it so dry but it wasn’t good. Needless to say I was willing to try any product that was reasonably priced.

The oil, like pure coconut oil, is solid at room temperature and needs to be warmed up to become a liquid. There is also a little dip in the plastic opening of the bottle where you need to pierce it so that the oil can be squeezed out.

Well after and few day of using the oil I noticed my hair was is much better condition!

  • Softer
  • Shinier
  • Easier to detangle
  • Less breakage

All the benefits you want basically. I was also kind of surprised this worked so well for me because ordinary coconut oil doesn’t work well on my hair. The only problem I had was that I wasn’t a big fan of the smell. It has quite a strong scent which I would describe as a mix of ginger and herbs/spices. It isn’t a bad smell but it’s quite strong. I’ve gotten used to it now so it doesn’t really bother me and it fades away after a while. That aside, I love this oil! It’s definitely one of my faves.

Rating: 4/5

Review: Dark and Lovely Ultra Cholesterol Conditioning Treatment

Last week when I was shopping I saw a tub if this Dark and Lovely on the hair aisle. My hair can always do with a good conditioning so I thought I’d give it a go. I usedit on freshly shampooed and conditioned hair so I could see exactly what it could do for my hair.

Look and feel

The product was a very vibrant shade of yellow as you might have seen . The product also comes unsealed. I thought maybe it was just mine at first but I’ve heard others had experienced the same thing. The conditioner is somewhere between runny and firm, although t may be on the runnier side. This isn’t a problem once it’s on  your hair but it slipped through my fingers a few times. (Maybe I’m just clumsy :p)


The smell is quite strong and perfume-y. I kept the conditioner on for about 15 minutes with a plastic bonnet but it gave me a bit of a headache.

Did it work?

It was okay, but I feel like maybe my hair didn’t really need it. My hair didn’t feel any softer or more moisturized and after 2 or 3 days it actually felt kind of dry. To be fair I tried out a different conditioner at the same time so this test may not have been accurate. I might try it out again and see if it works any better.

Rating: 3/5

How Often Do You Wash Your Hair?

I was reading an article over at BGLH about whether washing you hair more frequently can help growth. Naptural85 is trying a new method where she co-washes her hair every 3 days. The theory discussed in the video is that frequent washing stimulates the roots and also moisturizes the hair and scalp which helps retention and growth. It sounds interesting and I feel like most breakage problems come from a lack of moisture so it could work for some people.

Personally, I co-wash my every week and I shampoo every 1-2 weeks. I’ve tried co-washing in the week before but I was worried that I was manipulating my hair too much. Since then I realized that part of my problem may have been that I used a Denman to detangle during every wash and essentially I was just ripping through my wet hair with brush. Brushing hair wet isn’t a good idea for some and I’ve found out I’m one of them. I think I’ll try washing my hair twice a week again but only using either a wide tooth comb or my fingers to detangle.

How often do you wash your hair?

Help! Coconut Oil didn’t Work For My Hair!

Okay, so everyone – and I mean EVERYONE has been raving about coconut oil and how it has worked wonders on their hair (not to mention their skin and also teeth through oil pulling). Well… a few weeks ago I said “Why not?” and picked up a bottle of coconut oil in the supermarket. Now, I admit on my skin it has been beneficial in terms of softness and I feel like after a week or so of oil pulling, my teeth looked whiter but the main reason I bought the oil was for my hair.

So when it came to washing my hair I used the coconut oil as a pre-poo. I separated my hair into 4 and applied about a table spoon of heated oil to each section. I noticed that my hair was kind of stiff looking as soon as I applied it and when I washed it off my hair looked and felt dry. I thought “Maybe this is what’s supposed to happen.” Well no… I shampooed, conditioned and DC’d and my hair looked like straw with barely any curl pattern. I thought maybe I did something wrong so I tried again the next week. Same problem. It took 2-3 weeks for my hair to return to normal and I haven’t put it on my hair since.

Lesson learned. Not everything is for everyone and my hair did not respond well to coconut oil. I naturally have a breakage problem and this exacerbated it.

Why did it happen?

I have low porosity hair and I’ve heard that a few other lo-po naturals have experienced similar results. It’s possible that it could be due to protein sensitivity or maybe another factor that I haven’t thought of yet. Either way, it’s not for me.

This is why it’s good to test things out on small sections of your hair before you use it (but sometimes it’s too tempting to just use it straight away). Just in case you have a bad reaction to it.

Does you hair like coconut oil?